For many couples, the family home is more than just their biggest financial asset—it’s also where memories were made, children were raised, and routines were built. So when a marriage ends, one of the most emotionally and financially significant questions becomes: What happens to the house?
In Vermont, there’s no one-size-fits-all answer. The outcome depends on a range of factors, including how the property was acquired, whose name is on the deed, and what’s considered “equitable” under state law.
Vermont Is an Equitable Distribution State
Unlike community property states, where marital assets are divided 50/50, Vermont follows equitable distribution rules. That means the court aims for a division of property that is fair, but not necessarily equal. When it comes to the house, the court will look at the full picture to determine who should receive it—or whether it should be sold.
Is the Home Marital Property?
The first step in deciding what happens to the house is to determine whether it’s considered marital property or separate property.
- Marital property generally includes any property acquired by either spouse during the marriage, regardless of whose name is on the deed.
- Separate property is usually property owned by one spouse before the marriage, inherited individually, or received as a gift—though even separate property can become marital under certain conditions.
For example, if one spouse bought the home before the marriage but both spouses contributed to the mortgage or improvements, the house (or at least part of its value) may be treated as marital property.
What Factors Does the Court Consider?
When deciding what to do with the house, Vermont courts look at a number of factors to determine what’s fair. These include:
- The length of the marriage
- Each spouse’s contributions (financial and non-financial)
- The needs of any children
- Each spouse’s earning potential and financial circumstances
- Whether one spouse wants to keep the home and can afford to do so
- Whether one spouse has primary custody of the children and would benefit from staying in the home
Common Outcomes for the House in Divorce
Depending on the circumstances, there are several ways the home can be handled:
1. One Spouse Buys Out the Other
If one spouse wants to keep the home, they may buy out the other spouse’s share. This typically involves refinancing the mortgage in their own name and paying the other spouse their portion of the home’s equity.
2. The Home Is Sold and the Proceeds Are Split
This is often the simplest option, particularly if neither spouse can afford to keep the house on their own or if neither wants it. The couple sells the house and divides the equity according to the divorce agreement or court order.
3. One Spouse Stays Temporarily
In some cases, especially where children are involved, one spouse may stay in the home for a set period of time (e.g., until the youngest child turns 18), after which the home is sold and the proceeds divided.
4. Both Spouses Continue to Co-Own
Rare, but possible—especially if the real estate market is poor or the home has sentimental value. This requires careful planning, clear agreements about expenses and responsibilities, and an exit plan.
Don’t Forget the Tax and Mortgage Implications
Whatever the outcome, it’s important to consider:
- Mortgage liability—If both spouses are on the mortgage, both are responsible—even if one moves out.
- Capital gains taxes—Selling a home may trigger taxes on the profit, though married couples can often exclude up to $500,000 in gains if certain conditions are met.
- Refinancing challenges—The spouse keeping the home must qualify on their own for refinancing.
These financial and tax issues are why it’s important to work with both a divorce attorney and a financial advisor during this process.
Need Help Managing Property Division? Contact Deppman Law PLC
Dividing property—especially the family home—can be one of the most difficult aspects of divorce. At Deppman Law PLC, we’re here to help you understand your rights, evaluate your options, and reach a fair and sustainable resolution. Contact us today for a confidential consultation about your case.

