Starting a business is exciting—but starting one with family or close friends adds an extra layer of trust, enthusiasm, and shared vision. It can also add risk.
At Deppman Law PLC, we often meet clients who enter into business partnerships with loved ones only to discover later that good relationships don’t always guarantee good business outcomes. The key to maintaining both a healthy business and a healthy relationship is clear communication—and proper legal planning.
Here’s what every Vermont entrepreneur should know before launching a business with people they care about.
1. Treat It Like a Business—Because It Is One
It’s tempting to assume that a handshake and a shared dream are enough when starting a business with someone you trust. But even the closest relationships can fray under the pressures of ownership, money, and decision-making.
The best way to preserve those personal relationships is to approach the business professionally from the very beginning. That means forming the appropriate legal structure, outlining each person’s role, and addressing key “what if” scenarios while everyone is still on the same page.
2. Choose the Right Business Structure
The structure you choose affects everything from taxes and liability to decision-making authority. If you’re forming a business with others, you’ll likely be considering one of the following:
- Limited Liability Company (LLC)—Offers flexibility and personal liability protection. You can customize roles and responsibilities in the operating agreement.
- Partnership—Easier to form but comes with shared liability unless limited protections are added.
- S Corporation—May offer tax advantages but is more complex to set up and maintain.
Each has its pros and cons, and the right fit depends on your goals, risk tolerance, and financial picture. An attorney can help you weigh the options.
3. Draft a Detailed Operating or Partnership Agreement
This is the most important legal document for any co-owned business—and often the most overlooked when working with family or friends. A good agreement will clearly spell out:
- Ownership percentages
- Capital contributions (Who is putting in what money or resources?)
- Roles and responsibilities
- Decision-making authority
- How profits (and losses) are divided
- What happens if someone wants out or passes away
- How disputes are resolved
It may feel uncomfortable to talk through these scenarios at the start, but it’s far more difficult—and costly—to address them later without a written agreement in place.
4. Plan for the “What Ifs”
Every business faces bumps in the road. You and your co-owner(s) may not always agree on the direction of the business, hiring decisions, or how to reinvest profits. That’s why it’s so important to build in mechanisms for resolving disagreements before they escalate.
Also think about:
- Exit strategies—Can one partner buy out the other? On what terms?
- Divorce or inheritance—What happens to an ownership share if a partner gets divorced or passes away?
- Disability or loss of capacity—Will there be a buyout or a transfer of management duties?
A little planning now can save your business—and your relationship—later.
5. Maintain Boundaries Between Personal and Business Finances
Mixing business and personal finances is one of the fastest ways to create confusion—and legal trouble. Even when working with loved ones, treat the business like a separate entity:
- Set up a business bank account.
- Document loans or capital contributions in writing.
- Pay yourself and your partners through proper channels.
- Keep clean records for tax and liability purposes.
This helps reinforce professionalism and provides a clear trail if financial questions arise.
6. Don’t Skip Legal and Financial Advice
Too often, people assume that involving lawyers or accountants will “complicate” a friendly business venture. In reality, professional guidance ensures you’re setting the business up for success. It helps you prevent problems—rather than clean them up later.
Protect the Business and the Relationship—Talk to Deppman Law PLC
Going into business with family or friends can be incredibly rewarding, but it takes careful planning and honest conversations to keep both the business and the relationship strong. At Deppman Law PLC, we help Vermont entrepreneurs navigate the legal steps to set their partnerships up for success. Contact us today to schedule a confidential consultation and learn more.

