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Child custody cases are frequently complicated and can be highly emotional and stressful for everyone involved. Even when a case seems relatively straightforward at the beginning, it is not uncommon for disagreements to arise. To prevent, or at least mitigate, some of the emotional and financial damage often associated with child custody issues, it is critical to work with an experienced family lawyer and to familiarize yourself with issues that commonly arise in child custody cases.
A Parent Moves
The relocation of a parent can upend even the simplest custody case. This concern is especially prevalent in states with high percentages of non-native residents, like Vermont, where divorcing or separating parents are likely to have moved during the course of their relationship. After a divorce or separation, one parent may wish to return to their hometown, or relocate to a state where they haven’t built a life with their ex. If one parent has sole custody and the other parent has visitation rights, moving the child out of state can make visitation extremely difficult, if not impossible. But what if the move is really in the child’s best interests? When there is disagreement about a parent’s relocation in a child custody case, the court must grant permission to relocate.
The Parent with Sole Custody Creates Visitation Challenges for the Other Parent
It is common for one parent to disrupt visitation times as a sort of “penalty” for the other parent’s failures or perceived misjudgments, such as not paying child support or bringing the child around a new boyfriend or girlfriend. On the other hand, the parent with visitation may create a visitation disruption by failing to drop the child off on time or at the stipulated location. Visitation disruptions also apply to virtual visitation, such as phone or FaceTime calls. A common complaint occurs when one parent refuses to allow the child to speak to the other parent, which can happen for any number of reasons. When disruptions to the visitation schedule become problematic, parents may need to go to court to resolve the issue.
Decisions About How the Child is Raised
When a disagreement arises over the child’s education, sports, religious upbringing, travel, medical care, or relationships with other family members, the issue can quickly spiral into a serious problem. As such, it is critical to establish a comprehensive agreement about the child’s upbringing early on in the process. When appropriate, such issues are often best resolved through mediation.
Contact Deppman Law PLC Today
If you are facing any of the issues above, or another matter related to child custody, the legal team at Deppman Law PLC can help. Our compassionate Middlebury family lawyers have helped countless Vermont families protect their emotional and financial wellbeing through divorce, separation, and child custody cases. We will review your case to determine the best legal strategy for your unique situation and remain by your side throughout the entire process. Contact Benj and Lesley at 802-388-6337 for a confidential consultation today.